My wife loves those.I’m not a huge potato chip guy but Snyder’s sweet and sassy are the ****.
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Happy Mother’s Day, moms of 5AF.
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That's a better story than a lot of recent feature films.
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outstanding
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I was cracking up and the whole sir I'm a boat had me howling.
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Hey married people. If your wife pitched a “day trip” to Disney with her girlfriends, what would you say?
Fly out at 5am, going to Epcot, get back in at 1am.
Fly out at 5am, going to Epcot, get back in at 1am.
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Sounds expensive.
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I'm not sure I understand. Would you be going?Hey married people. If your wife pitched a “day trip” to Disney with her girlfriends, what would you say?
Fly out at 5am, going to Epcot, get back in at 1am.
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Is she paying for it or am I? If she's paying for it herself, go nuts for donuts...
I actually kind of like just grinding out a long day trip instead of dealing with hotels n'at...
I semi-regularly go to the midwest (Michigan, Iowa, etc.) and I'll fly out Friday afternoon and try to get back in my apartment in time for breakfast Saturday morning...
I actually kind of like just grinding out a long day trip instead of dealing with hotels n'at...
I semi-regularly go to the midwest (Michigan, Iowa, etc.) and I'll fly out Friday afternoon and try to get back in my apartment in time for breakfast Saturday morning...
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I would not be going.I'm not sure I understand. Would you be going?Hey married people. If your wife pitched a “day trip” to Disney with her girlfriends, what would you say?
Fly out at 5am, going to Epcot, get back in at 1am.
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Paying for it herself… you’ve not been married long. Plus there’s kids involved.Is she paying for it or am I? If she's paying for it herself, go nuts for donuts...
I actually kind of like just grinding out a long day trip instead of dealing with hotels n'at...
I semi-regularly go to the midwest (Michigan, Iowa, etc.) and I'll fly out Friday afternoon and try to get back in my apartment in time for breakfast Saturday morning...
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What is she pitching then? You're not paying for it, you're not going, you don't really have a say in it. I would tell my wife to have a good time and bring me back a new coffee mug.
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Do you all keep separate bank accounts after getting married?
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Our money goes to the same account but having separate accounts is pretty popular.
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I was shocked at the number of people that have separate accounts. our money is all slushed together in almost all aspects
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Okay, so I’m gathering my initial reaction of “that’s a silly way to spend money.” Is somewhat off base. Just wanted to get a feel on how other people would react.
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On the disney thing I wouldn't care if my wife wanted to go on a day trip. Go have fun. None of my business really to be honest.
I feel like we've discussed the bank account thing before.
We have a joint "house" account that mortgage and other house related things gets paid out of. We both dump "X" number of dollars in that a month.
We have a joint HYSA account that we both dump money into each month to build that up.
We also both have our retirement funds that we dump money into and that we are each others beneficiaries etc.
We then also have both separate personal accounts. I think we both technically have a card for each others, but I don't ask or care what money is in there, nor does she care what is in mine. It works for us so that is how we've always done it.
I feel like we've discussed the bank account thing before.
We have a joint "house" account that mortgage and other house related things gets paid out of. We both dump "X" number of dollars in that a month.
We have a joint HYSA account that we both dump money into each month to build that up.
We also both have our retirement funds that we dump money into and that we are each others beneficiaries etc.
We then also have both separate personal accounts. I think we both technically have a card for each others, but I don't ask or care what money is in there, nor does she care what is in mine. It works for us so that is how we've always done it.
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I think we've had a big discussion around this before here. My wife and I both have separate accounts. It was mainly to separate our checking accounts, since I use Quicken to balance everything and she still uses a checkbook. No real reason to do this with our Marcus accounts, but whenever I ask she never wants to deal with it, so here we are. I'll probably work on combining our Marcus accounts this year.Do you all keep separate bank accounts after getting married?
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Eh. It depends on the person. My wife would love it. For me, I'd rather do a weekend trip. That's a lot for one day.Okay, so I’m gathering my initial reaction of “that’s a silly way to spend money.” Is somewhat off base. Just wanted to get a feel on how other people would react.
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We have separate accounts but they’re all linked. Just worked out it made it easier to pay bills. We move money around as needed.Do you all keep separate bank accounts after getting married?
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^SameWe have separate accounts but they’re all linked. Just worked out it made it easier to pay bills. We move money around as needed.Do you all keep separate bank accounts after getting married?
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Seems to me like one could get the same experience by going to a sauna all day while using $20 bills as fuel to keep the fire going. Oh, and take a public bus to and from the sauna and ask the person behind you to kick the back of your seat. Bonus points if someone on the bus gets into a fistfight or gives you the 'rona.
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My wife and I have completely separate financial lives, so to speak. We support each other as needed but there is no comingling of funds as part of normal operations. We divide up our shared obligations in proportion to our income (about 2:1 since I earn almost double her income). It's great. No arguments, no guilt trips, no paranoia.
What's more interesting to me is my Dad and step-Mom had shared finances all of their lives. She up and retired (without telling my Dad) from a state government job at 54, severely undercutting her pension. They continued having shared finances for the next few years until just recently they split everything up. He got tired of her spending all of 'their' money on trips, shopping, and sending money to her sisters out west. Especially now that he is also retired, so they're on a set income. Now she has to live within her means and is starting to feel the pinch of her poor choice to quit her career so she can sit at the house all day and watch true crime documentaries.
There was a rough period for a bit but they've adapted to it. There are some quirks that manifest themselves in funny ways. They used to have big jars of candy all over the place for the grandkids and my Dad. Those are now gone because they're having a little stalemate about who is responsible for the candy budget.
What's more interesting to me is my Dad and step-Mom had shared finances all of their lives. She up and retired (without telling my Dad) from a state government job at 54, severely undercutting her pension. They continued having shared finances for the next few years until just recently they split everything up. He got tired of her spending all of 'their' money on trips, shopping, and sending money to her sisters out west. Especially now that he is also retired, so they're on a set income. Now she has to live within her means and is starting to feel the pinch of her poor choice to quit her career so she can sit at the house all day and watch true crime documentaries.
There was a rough period for a bit but they've adapted to it. There are some quirks that manifest themselves in funny ways. They used to have big jars of candy all over the place for the grandkids and my Dad. Those are now gone because they're having a little stalemate about who is responsible for the candy budget.
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We put a certain % to a shared account, which covers shared retirement/investments, family expenses, etc. then the remainder is separate. Helps us have "no guilt" spending money. So if I'm going on a trip, like above, it's just checking on childcare and not on the financing.
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