They brought me in at Director level after the acquisition. I knew I was in for some pain. At this point, I make more money than I need. I would take a 30-40% pay cut today if it meant my stress level went down significantly. But sadly, voluntary demotions aren't a thing and I don't have an interest in pounding the pavement to look for a new gig when it will most likely lead to the same horseshit.I had a guy turn down a promotion about a month ago because he didn't want to shoulder any more responsibility and potentially cut into his home life (he's got three kids under 3). My peer was flabbergasted (a childless individual). I told him I'm not surprised he said no. The candidate gained a huge amount of respect from me.I have a fancy job title. I am ineligible for improving my quality of life.Put an OoO up every night
If I can hack it for 6 or 7 more years, I can pay off my house and eliminate all of my debt. I think that's when i do something drastic. But that's a long time to feel like the universe is collapsing with your brain as the epicenter.