I can also picture the 14 y.o feeling forced into something when a 32 y.o. would see it as merely suggestive.
Huh, taking off hers and his clothes and feeling her up and then placing her hand on his underwear is merely suggestive?
Caveat: I'm not arguing that it wasn't statutory rape.
I'm saying that it's not sexual assault. The most assault worthy claim in her telling (as I recall it) was that he tried to get her to touch his member over his underwear.
If they were two adults, who had just passed second base, is suggesting running to third sexual assault? The account of her's that I've read didn't detail how the attempt was turned down and what happened immediately afterwards. It simply reads as they passed second base and he wanted to go further and she didn't. It doesn't make mention that she didn't want to or gave a sign that she didn't want to get to second base.