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[nocera]

Eeeeeh I don't agree with that. Why should she be ashamed?

[meow]

engaged ain't married

Does your wife feel the same way?

Does...doesn’t everyone feel the same way?

[willeyeam]

burn Baker burn

[shafnutz05]

Eeeeeh I don't agree with that. Why should she be ashamed?

You wouldn't be embarrassed if your daughter came to fame because she performed fellatio on an engaged man? I'm not trying to "sl*t-shame" her, but at the same time she definitely comes across as trashy.

[nocera]

I can't say how I'd react if she was my daughter because I don't have children so I can't fully appreciate that point of view. As an adult (who I have zero relation to), she's free to do whatever the hell she wants. And he was the one engaged, not her. So that's on him.

[faftorial]

I'm going to have to agree with Shaf that she's trashy.

[meow]

Come on, guys. Who hasn't gotten a hummer leaning up against a Cheesecake Factory dumpster? Right? Guys?

[shafnutz05]

Eeeeeh I don't agree with that. Why should she be ashamed?

On another note, she didn't have to come out publicly like this. She is coming out to tell the world that she blew Baker Mayfield behind a Cheesecake Factory because she desperately wants 15 minutes of fame or some money to come out of this. How this that not the definition of trashy?

[nocera]

Source of the post she didn't have to come out publicly like this.

Now that's true. It would definitely be different if this info came out from a different source.

[Troy Loney]

Eeeeeh I don't agree with that. Why should she be ashamed?

You wouldn't be embarrassed if your daughter came to fame because she performed fellatio on an engaged man? I'm not trying to "sl*t-shame" her, but at the same time she definitely comes across as trashy.

What do you think slut shaming is?

[nocera]

Come on, guys. Who hasn't gotten a hummer leaning up against a Cheesecake Factory dumpster? Right? Guys?

I mean, he's 24. I'm guessing she's that age or younger. Who didn't do crazy **** in their early 20s?

[NTP66]

[Troy Loney]

Also interesting to talk about how trashy the woman is for blowing an engaged celebrity, as opposed to how trashy Mayfield's actions are here.

This is the **** that got Roethlisberger a bad rep, and escalated into extremely questionable acts. I say the onus is on the celebrity to learn how to satisfy those desires without engaging vulnerable women like this one.

[nocera]

It's different than Ben's **** because Ben was accused of rape. These women are saying it was consensual, which is why my first reaction was this is a complete non story.

[faftorial]

Also interesting to talk about how trashy the woman is for blowing an engaged celebrity, as opposed to how trashy Mayfield's actions

They're both trashy (and both suck too).

[Troy Loney]

It's different than Ben's **** because Ben was accused of rape. These women are saying it was consensual, which is why my first reaction was this is a complete non story.

Before the rape allegations, Broeth had a reputation for skeezy acts with women around town. Like the thing in GA (which is an escalation of this sort of thing Mayfield did here).

[CBear3]

The if it was my daughter discussion:
Wanna give a young stud millionaire a blowy? Whatever totes your goats. Want to share that info with your friends as a hilarious/awesome story and be queen bee? Cool, cool.
Want to become a local celeb at the expense of airing your dirty laundry for all to see? Hell No.

I hope my daughters have awesome stories that they can tell when they're 35 and older about the crazy stupid fun stuff they did as 20 somethings. I acknowledge most of those I'm not going to really approve of, and the bottom line is always don't make a decision in 5 minutes that will effect your whole life. Be safe about it.

But going on radio shows and the like is a whole step too far.. The only reason to be doing this is to get money out of it, or to be a homewrecker. At least with a hooker you negotiate the business deal before hand.

[tifosi77]

Not sure what money she stands to get out of this.

[nocera]

By the way, she isn’t wrecking any homes. It’s his home. He’s the **** homewrecker.

[CBear3]

By the way, she isn’t wrecking any homes. It’s his home. He’s the **** homewrecker.

In this instance I totally agree.
I was trying to be more general. When a person comes forward like this, man or woman, why would they do it?
A) Money/Fame/Ego Stroking
B) Revenge (they thought the other party had done them wrong and want payback)
C) A second chance (they thought there was more emotional attachment and think splitting up the couple will give them another chance)

And none of that addresses/forgives the other party's actions.

It's obviously not B or C in this instance, so A would really be it.

[nocera]

It doesn't matter the intent, really. Could've all been avoided if he just kept it in his pants.

[NTP66]

This falls into the category of “who gives a ****”.

[faftorial]

By the way, she isn’t wrecking any homes. It’s his home. He’s the **** homewrecker.

if you find out someone is nailing your wife/gf you wouldn't be pissed at him?

[nocera]

Sure, but it's ultimately up to my wife/gf not to nail him. He has no obligation to me.

[Lemon Berry Lobster]